Friday, June 26, 2009

Cape Cod Wedding

My Cape Cod Wedding went incredibly well. I could not be happier for the bride and groom! The venue was a beautiful big mansion overlooking the water (I believe Chatham Harbor?) with a large wedding tent in the backyard and enough lawn left over for corn hole, croquet, and a few other lovely lawn-games! Lisa and Carson really did an amazing job of choosing colors (pinks, greens, and blues) to brighten up the tent and lawn.

I do have to admit that this was my first run in with a vendor that I would not recommend. The caterer showed up two hours before the guests were scheduled to arrive to dress 150 place settings, plus linens, plus the buffet tables, cocktail tables, and bars. They did not leave themselves enough time and were still doing finishing touches as guests arrived. Whenever I tried to help, the head of the company just looked at me and said "it's okay, we got it" in a very cranky-pants tone. Also, because of the late start the food was served late and majorly cut into the dancing time. There was a very strict "lights-out" policy at the venue and because everything got pushed back - dancing only lasted an hour or so instead of two. If you're getting married on the Cape please contact me so I can tell you which caterer I worked with at this wedding - you do not want them at yours.

The band was fantastic and I am adding them as well as the string trio to my website so you can get their names and contact info. The band is from Rindge, NH so if you're looking for something unique (bluegrass) this band will knock your socks off and are also willing to travel!

I have to say that the toasts at the wedding ran long - instead of three toasts it turned into seven. I would highly recommend not allowing people not originally on the docket to get a turn to speak - because generally they are not prepared and just babble on for oh 15 minutes or so :) If you want to give everyone a chance to speak do it at the rehearsal dinner - use the "strict timeline" on the wedding day as an excuse on why you can't allow it on *the* day.

Lisa and Carson had some great Meaningful Details -
  • Quilting Fabrics as foundation of center pieces
  • Unique guestbook
  • Table "numbers" were restaurants they found special and the stories of why
  • Escort cards were drink umbrellas stuck in beds of sand
  • Menu contained both Cape Cod traditional and Kentucky fare

Thank you to Lisa and Carson for letting me share your special day. My best wishes to you both!

Friday, May 22, 2009

2009 Wedding Season Almost Underway!

Wedding season is just around the corner. I am thrilled to be working with some amazing brides this Spring/Summer. My first wedding of the season is June 6th on the Cape. Does anyone know how long I should plan for travel time to get from Arlington to Orleans? This particular wedding will be like a blind date because I've not met the bride and groom yet. It will be awesome, they are going to have lawn games and board games and all kinds of fun! I am so excited to see how it all comes together.

I know you're all clamoring for me to post about my own wedding. So, I will. Our guest list, that including ourselves and our photographer friend fit on two full hands- just ten people. The day turned out in our favor. Planning an outdoor ceremony and reception in the end of October can be a little questionable... but it was warm enough and sunny enough for us to be perfectly happy. My husband's best friend became and officiant for a day and performed the ceremony that I wrote using a lot of tidbits of IndieBride. It was very nice. I cried throughout the whole thing. No, really. I did. Good thing for the water-proof mascara.

Our cake was wonderful, made by Crumpets Bakery in Pepperell. It was light green with beautiful white dots and our little duckie cake toppers! My mom did my bouquet and I made my headpiece. It was really quite an accomplishment since I am not really a DIY kind of a girl. But I was glad I did it, and it turned out beautifully.

I cannot thank my mom enough for all the hardwork she did on our wedding - from flowers to food to sanity. She really went above and beyond. I love her so much and am forever grateful that she was there beside me for my special day.

Well, before I get all misty-eyed, I should go.
Oh- I am on Twitter now too @Meaningfuldtail ... stupid character limit kind of screwed me up. If you'd like to follow me though, I am there :)